Family Traditions: The Importance of Christmas Clothes

Christmas Clothes The Importance Of Family Traditions

The Christmas holiday is one family tradition I always look forward to. Apart from the fun and relaxation with friends and family, I always anticipate my Christmas clothes. My parents would always gift my siblings and I new clothes and shoes every Christmas holiday and it became a tradition. This is one age-old tradition has been passed from generation to generation and I will continually uphold and cherish. The cheesy feeling it brings and the love behind giving us those Christmas clothes makes it remarkable. Another family gathering I always look forward to is the cross overnight. Everyone in my family is always present as we share, pray, and plan for the new year. Yours might be different from mine. There are certain traditions your parents have instilled in you that have shaped you. I once had a friend who told me that every year, in honor of their mom’s birthday, they visit the orphanage to donate food items and clothing. In turn, this tradition made her regard the less privileged. Importance of Family Traditions Family traditions carry a special significance for all family members involved. As opposed to family routines which are often basic activities that are necessary to keep the family unit functioning. Family traditions help to make memories for families that last a lifetime. It provides children with a sense of security by providing continuity. It gives family members a strong sense of belonging. It helps pass on family values, including cultural and religious heritage. Conclusion Family traditions are always something to look forward to as they establish a foundation for family values and serve as special bonding experiences.

Sexual Assault Awareness and Stories of 4 Victims of Sexual Assault

Sexual Assault Awareness (1)

Sexual Assault is a silent pandemic in our contemporary society. It involves sexual actions that are carried out without the consent of the other party. It is a crime, and sexual assault affects the victim all around. This, sexual assault awareness must be carried out by you and me. Sexual Assault Awareness involves teaching people how to protect themselves from sexual assault, heal from sexual assault, and educate people to not be perpetrators of sexual assault. Read this article to read about sexual assault, sexual assault awareness, and stories of victims of sexual assault.

A Tale of 3 Women Who Broke Barriers

Birds Who Flew Without Wings A Tale of Three Women Who Broke Barriers

A Tale of 3 women who against all odds broke barriers, Dr. Yvonne, Miss Ara, and Mrs. Ayanfe, didn’t let their past and background define them; read this article to see their stories, how they flew even when it seemed as though their wings had been cut.

Female Genital Mutilation: The Tale of a Victim 1

Female Genital Mutilation Tale of a Victim (1)

Amina’s 10th birthday marked a turning point in her life. Instead of celebrating, she was taken to a village where she was forced to undergo female genital mutilation (FGM). The experience was traumatic, and Amina witnessed the devastating consequences of FGM, including the death of a young girl who underwent the procedure before her.

The Best Love: 8 Ways To Remind You of God’s Love

The Best Love 8 Ways To Remind You of God's Love

Feeling Unloved and Unseen? Here Are Reminders of the Best Love Ever – God’s Love. Love is an emotion characterized by strong feelings of affection for another arising out of kinship, companionship, admiration, or benevolence (Britannica). God is love. The best description of love is found in John 3:16, which says, “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” It’s essential to remember that there’s no better love than the love God has for us. And God has commanded us to love others as He has loved us (John 13:34). In the Bible, we see that God is a loving Father. Here are some reminders of His love: Love Cares: Do you feel uncared for here’s a reminder of God’s love, and how much He cares for us. God cares for us deeply. In Matthew 6:26-30, Jesus says, “Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?… And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin.” Love Provides: The other day, you were in lack and as always, God came through for you in ways you didn’t even expect. Fear not, God is the same yesterday, today, and forever. He will come to your aid today. God provides for His children abundantly. In Matthew 7:9-11, Jesus says, “Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!” Love Sacrifices: There’s no love without sacrifice, and Christ has made the greatest sacrifice ever. Romans 5:8 says, “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Love Protects: Are you scared of the plans of the enemy? Here’s a reassurance, God protects His children with care. In Psalm 91:11-12, it says, “For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways; they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.” Love Comforts: Are you in despair, so you feel depressed, neglected. God is stretching His arms, allow Him into your heart. God comforts His children in times of need. In John 14:16-17, Jesus says, “And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever—the Spirit of truth.” Matthew 11:28-30 says, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Love Sees: God sees us and knows each and every part of our being. In Genesis 16:13-14, Hagar, who was distressed and in the desert, encountered the angel of the Lord. She realized God was aware of her circumstances and called Him El-roi, meaning “You are the God who sees me… I have now seen the One who sees me.” Love Listens: You need someone to talk to? God listens to our prayers and answers. God knows the voice of His sheep. In Jeremiah 33:3, it says, “Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.” Love Heals: I want you to hold on God no matter how terrible and sad the hospital report says. God is the Great Physician. In Matthew 15:30, it says, “Great crowds came to him, bringing the lame, the blind, the crippled, the mute, and many others, and laid them at his feet; and he healed them.” Call to Action: Now, take a moment to reflect on the aspects of your life where God’s love is visible and undoubtedly present. Hold on to His faithfulness, and in prayer, ask the Lord to help your heart. Conclusion: As children of God, we’re commanded to love others as He has loved us (John 13:34). Love can be shared through the smallest acts of kindness. A smile, a thoughtful gesture, or a kind word can go a long way. True love goes beyond public displays; it’s about genuinely regarding others with kindness and respect. It’s about being willing to sacrifice for the benefit of others. Love is doing good without expecting anything in return. As Jesus taught, love is forgiving others “seventy times seven” (Matthew 18:22).   ALSO READ: Religion Creates No Boundaries In Love

The Power of Femininity: Strength, Fashion, Dominion, and Positive Contribution to Society

The power of femininity

Femininity is a force to be reckoned with that transcends looks or expectation. It is strength, elegance, authority, and the ability to build a better world. Women are breaking glass ceilings, taking over industries, and influencing culture today with the poise and beauty that characterize femininity. This article explores the intersection of strength, fashion, dominance, and the revolutionary effect of feminine power on society. Femininity as Strength The belief that femininity is the same as weakness is one that is false and obsolete. Femininity is, in fact, a display of strength in numerous senses—mental, emotional, physical, and social. Women have exhibited strength throughout history, from war heroines such as Joan of Arc to modern leaders such as Malala Yousafzai and Kamala Harris. Femininity finds strength in being able to nurture and support and remain firm in beliefs. Women juggle multiple roles—career professionals, mothers, entrepreneurs, and activists—without diluting their identity. Strength to remain soft and firm is among the finest attributes of femininity. Emotional intelligence, tolerance, and the ability to effect change through empathy render women powerful forces in society. Furthermore, feminine power is about being vulnerable and authentic. It takes courage to be emotional in a world where strength is often associated with emotional numbness. Vulnerable women who make good decisions are the essence of balanced power. Fashion as an Expression of Femininity Fashion is one of the most external expressions of femininity. Fashion is not just apparel; it is a language, a tool of self-expression, and a medium of empowerment. Throughout history, fashion has played a role in the construction of feminine identity and social status. From Victorian-era dresses to today’s power suits for female CEOs, fashion both enshrines beauty and reflects change in society. And now, femininity in fashion is to have an option—dressing in a flowing gown or in a fitted jacket without compromising on identity. Beyond beauty, fashion gives women a voice. Consider the impact of such campaigns as “Dress for Success,” which encourages women to embrace attire that exudes confidence and authority in the workplace. Fashion is also revolution; women have employed it to challenge norms, from Coco Chanel popularizing trousers for women to modern influencers embracing body positivity. Even in casual attire, womanhood shines through colors, texture, and the manner in which garments are worn. Truthfulness is the key to feminine style—dressing as oneself feels right and not based on outside pressures. From a bold lip color, stilettos, to minimalism, fashion is a powerful expression of feminine presence. Dominion: Women in Leadership and Influence Dominion is not dominance but authority to influence, decide, and shape the world. Women globally are redefining leadership and proving that femininity and power coexist. Women are leaving indelible marks in politics, business, technology, and social activism. Women like Oprah Winfrey, Michelle Obama, and Angela Merkel have proven that feminine leadership is not domination but vision, empathy, and transformation. Women’s ability to lead with grace and wisdom is unique. Unlike the ancient models of leadership based on aggression only, most women leaders bring collaboration, compassion, and creativity. This is evident in the success of women-led organizations that typically prioritize teamwork, oneness, and sustainable development. Even outside of formal leadership positions, women have influence in families, communities, and workplaces. A mother who raises confident children, an artist who uses imagination to challenge conventions, or a teacher who educates future generations—all of these are examples of feminine power in action. Women no longer need permission to exercise sovereignty; they are building the world by being themselves—fearless, intelligent, and resilient. Positive Contribution to Society One of the most wonderful aspects of femininity is how it benefits the greater good. Women have traditionally played crucial roles in society, whether as caregivers, innovators, or activists. In education, women like Malala Yousafzai have fought to get girls educated, in the sense that they bring access to information to the generations that come. In technology and science, innovators like Marie Curie and Ada Lovelace have gone an extra mile so that their achievements benefit humankind. Social activism is also led by women. It was women’s persistence in achieving voting rights, workplace equality, and reproductive rights that fueled the feminist movements. Women still lead such endeavors today for climate protection, human rights movements, and grassroots development efforts. In addition to activism, the day-to-day normal efforts of women build strong societies. The affection and love of mothers, the counseling of working women, and the endurance of women during tough times all create a successful world. Conclusion Femininity is a sophisticated power that brings together strength, style, authority, and a positive social impact. It breaks stereotypes but encompasses resilience, self-expression, leadership, and change. Women are redefining history by simply being themselves boldly, elegantly, and powerfully. The woman of today is a warrior in her own right, changing the world with brains, flair, and compassion. From boardrooms, classrooms, runways, to homes, femininity remains a force for change. To be feminine is to be powerful—one that can change the world for the better. Call to Action Never diminish your essence, if you are a woman — embrace your feminine side and do it with pride. If you are a man, encourage and celebrate the women in your life. So, let us create a world where we value, empower, and express femininity. Also Read: 8 Vital Tips on How to Self-Prioritize

Family and Values: All You Need to Know

Family and Values All You Need to Know (2)

Thinking about values and what should be your top value? Choose family. Read this article to know why. A family is a group of people related by blood, marriage, or adoption. The Cambridge Dictionary defines values as the beliefs people have, especially about what is right and wrong and what is most important in life, that control their behaviour. Examples of values include growth, empathy, discipline, family, compassion, honesty, humility, and courage. I hold family as my top value, and I believe everyone should too. Family is the first and primary institution in society, and it plays a crucial role in child care and development. Your family is your first school, and when a child is born, the family becomes solely responsible for their development, welfare, and overall well-being. The family unit teaches children basic knowledge, respect, honesty, humility, and essential life skills. As children grow, these lessons shape their social, cultural, political, and religious views. When children from different families interact, their differing perspectives often lead to disagreements. However, these disagreements stem from the values instilled by their families. Brown is a high school girl who believes she can break barriers and, against all odds, become a great force in aerospace. June, a five-year-old, believes he’s going to be a doctor someday. Lin doesn’t eat meat because her mom said they’re vegetarians. Zuri, a four-year-old, almost went out with her hair out, but her elder sister told her girls in Islam should always cover their hair. Tahley cried because he wanted to meet Santa Claus, and his dad said, “Wait till it’s Christmas.” Nobody is an island; everyone needs family and the love that binds them. Your family is the first to love you, and this love stays, even till the end of time. While there may be conflicts, it is pertinent to know that as long as humans are on earth, there will always be conflicts, and they can always be managed and curbed. Tobi and Julie, siblings who argue frequently, remain best friends for life. If you’re unsure about prioritizing family, ask yourself: Who supported you in difficult times? Who reassured and cared for you? Who made sacrifices and stayed by your side? Who said those prayers and stayed with you all night? Mr. Levi, a 66-year-old in the hospital, looks at his wife with so much love as she cleans him up with care and gentleness. Shayla cries as her lover just dumped her, and she finds solace and comfort in her big brother’s arms. Katherine is campaigning, as she wants to be the first black woman to win the election. The love of family is profound. It’s deeper than the Pacific Ocean, knowing you for who you are and standing by you through thick and thin. Come rain, come sunshine. When others turn away, your family remains. They bring joy in bleak times, make you laugh when you see no reason to, provide a sense of security, and take risks for you. They teach with love, and no one wants the best for you more than your family. Brown is now an aerospace engineer; her family believed in her and gave her all the support she needed. Just like Ben Carson, June is now a neurosurgeon; he wasn’t good in sciences, but his big brother didn’t give up on him. Lin doesn’t need to be reminded to say no when given meat. Zuri knows she must not expose her hair in public; she has never done that. “Christmas is my best season,” Tahley said, as he does his Christmas decor in his apartment in a Santa Claus costume. Mrs. Levi has tears of joy rolling down her cheeks as Mr. Levi rings the bell; he beats cancer and will be discharged from the hospital in a few days. Shayla has now found true love and is married to the best man ever. Katherine won her election against all odds; her family was her backbone. I can go on and on, but the lesson here is that all these achievements were made possible because they all had families with them and by their side. Even as you reflect, this is all you need to hold family as your top value today. ALSO READ: When Family Becomes the Most Important Destination

Family: The One thing That Truly Matters

Family The One Thing That Truly Matters

Family means a lot more than what I can imagine or express in words. This morning, I found myself reflecting on the moments in life that have meant the most to me. Maybe it was a childhood memory—running into my mother’s arms after scraping my knee, or the sound of my dad’s laughter echoing through the house. Maybe it was something recent—a sibling who stood by me when no one else did, or a grandparent’s wisdom that still shapes my choices today. No matter who we are or where we come from, family is at the heart of our experiences. It’s more than just the people we’re related to—it’s the ones who love us, support us, and make us feel at home, no matter what. And in a world that constantly pulls us in different directions, I believe that prioritizing family is the key to a life well lived. Why Family Matters More Than Ever They are Our Safe Haven Life can be so messy. We all go through life struggles like heartbreak, failure, uncertainty. But family is the one place where you don’t have to pretend. I remember the day I got my WAEC results. My heart sank as I saw the not so encouraging grade. I felt like I had let myself down—and worse, my family. I dreaded telling my parents, convinced they would be disappointed. But when I finally gathered the courage, my dad looked at me and said, ‘If you’re not tired of retaking it, then I am not tired of paying for it.’ And my mom, instead of scolding me, she hugged me, sat me down and helped me create a new study plan. That moment changed my mindset—I realized that failure wasn’t the end, but a lesson. With my family’s support, I retook the exam and passed the second time around. More importantly, I learned that their love for me was never tied to my achievements. They see you at your best and your worst and love you anyway. That kind of support isn’t just comforting—it’s life-changing. They Shape Who We Are Think about the values that guide you. Maybe you learned kindness from a mother who always helped others. I remember watching my mom donate blood for my paternal uncle, who was in urgent need. I was young at the time, and it seemed like such a small act—but it stuck with me. My mom always taught me that kindness doesn’t have to come in grand gestures; it’s the little things we do every day. She would never turn away someone in need, even when it was inconvenient. Today, whenever I see someone struggling, I think of her example and try to help in whatever way I can. Maybe you learn resilience from a father who never gave up. Maybe your sense of humor comes from a sibling who could make you laugh even on the hardest days. Family shape us in ways we don’t always realize, but their impact lasts a lifetime. They Keep Us Grounded In a world obsessed with success, money, and status, it’s easy to lose sight of what really matters. We chase careers, achievements, and recognition, only to find that none of it truly fills the void. But family? They remind us of what really matters, love and connection. I once found myself comparing myself to others, thinking that I wasn’t good enough unless I had the same things they did—a bigger house, a higher-paying job, a ‘perfect’ life. But my family kept me grounded. My sister, with her no-nonsense attitude, told me, ‘Don’t get caught up in what everyone else has. You’ve got everything you need right here.’ Her words were a wake-up call and this is why I am always proud of what I do. My family reminded me that success is different for everyone, and true happiness comes from being content with who you are—not from keeping up with anyone else. Shared moments like this are what make life meaningful and with their guidance, we find our true worth—not in what we achieve, but in who we are and who we are to one another. They Guide Us Through Scripture In a world full of wrong teachings, Family teaches you how to read and understand the Bible, explaining its lessons and helping you apply them to your own life. The teachings from Scripture form the basis of your understanding of God’s plan for you. My grandmother had a beautiful old Bible she kept by her bedside. Every morning, before anyone else was awake, I would quietly find her on her knees, praying with the Bible open in front of her, praying. ‘God has a plan for you, but you need to listen,’ she always told me. One day, I asked her why she always turned to Proverbs, and she explained how the wisdom in those verses had guided her life. She would often share Proverbs 3:5-6: ‘Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.’ That verse became my foundation for navigating difficult decisions, and even now, when life feels uncertain, I remember how she lived those words every day. The Choice to Prioritize Family Here’s the truth: life is short, and time is the one thing we can never get back. We can either get caught up in the distractions of the world, or we can choose to cherish the people who matter most. So, when was the last time you told your parents you loved them? Or called your siblings just to check in? When did you last put down your phone and truly listen to your child, spouse, or best friend? If family is the foundation of happiness, then let’s build our lives around it. Let’s make time for the people who love us. Let’s have more dinners together, more deep conversations, more laughter. Because in the end, success, money, and accomplishments will … Read more

How a Positive Living Space Can Boost Your Mental Health: The Link Between Environment and Well- Being.

How a Positive Living Space Can Boost Your Mental Health The Link Between Environment and Well Being.

A Positive Living Space Can Boost Your Mental Health. Your living environment plays a crucial role in shaping your mental health. The spaces you inhabit; whether it’s your home, office, or even public spaces, have a profound effect on how you feel, think, and function. A cluttered, dark, or stressful environment can contribute to feelings of anxiety, depression, and unease, while a well-organized, bright, and calming space can help promote mental clarity, reduce stress, and improve overall well-being. This article will explain the connection between your environment and mental health, and how creating a positive living space can significantly enhance your emotional well-being. Environment- Mental Health link Environmental psychology studies how our surroundings affect our emotions and behavior. The colors, textures, lighting, and overall organization of a space can either uplift your mood or bring it down. In fact, several studies have shown that people who live in cluttered or disorganized environments tend to experience higher levels of the stress hormone cortisol, leading to anxiety and reduced mental clarity. On the other hand, well-lit, airy, and organized spaces promote relaxation, focus, and positivity. How a Positive Living Space Boosts Mental Health Creating a positive and uplifting living environment can significantly impact your emotional health and overall happiness. Here are some key ways your living space can boost mental health: Reducing Stress and Anxiety A clean, organized, and calming living space helps to reduce stress and anxiety. Clutter and mess can create a sense of chaos, making it difficult to focus and relax. In contrast, a tidy and well-organized home can create a sense of control and calm, helping to reduce anxiety and promote relaxation. Simple changes like decluttering and incorporating calming elements, such as plants or soft lighting, can help transform your space into a stress-free zone. Promoting Positive Emotions The design and ambiance of your living space can directly influence your mood. Natural light, for example, is known to boost serotonin levels in the brain, enhancing feelings of happiness and well-being. Incorporating natural elements like plants, wooden textures, and fresh air can bring a sense of peace and contentment, making your living space a sanctuary for relaxation and joy. Encouraging Productivity and Focus A well-organized and aesthetically pleasing environment enhances your ability to focus and be productive. If you work or study from home, setting up a dedicated workspace free from distractions can improve concentration and cognitive function. Adding simple features like ergonomic furniture, natural lighting, and soft colors can foster a more productive and mentally stimulating environment. Fostering Better Sleep Your environment can also affect your sleep quality, which directly influences your mental health. Creating a calming bedroom atmosphere with dim lighting, comfortable bedding, and cool colors can improve your sleep, leading to better emotional stability and reduced stress levels. Good sleep hygiene, supported by a peaceful and quiet environment, is essential for maintaining mental clarity and emotional well-being. Tips on how to Create a Positive Living Space Now that you understand the importance of your environment, here are a few simple tips to help you create a positive living space that supports your mental health: Declutter Regularly: Remove unnecessary items and keep your space organized. Decluttering helps reduce stress and allows your mind to relax in a clean, peaceful environment. Incorporate Natural Elements: Bring the outdoors in with plants, natural wood, and plenty of sunlight. Studies show that exposure to nature helps reduce anxiety and depression while enhancing overall mood. Use Soothing Colors: Soft colors like blues, greens, and pastels can have a calming effect on your mind. Try incorporating these into your home decor to promote relaxation. Maximize Natural Light: Open up curtains and let in as much natural light as possible. Natural light boosts serotonin and helps regulate sleep patterns, leading to improved mood and energy levels. Create Dedicated Spaces: Have specific areas for work, relaxation, and sleep. A clear distinction between these spaces can help you focus better when working and unwind more effectively during downtime.   Conclusion Your living space plays a pivotal role in your mental health and overall well-being. By making small, intentional changes to your environment, you can create a positive and calming space that reduces stress, promotes happiness, and enhances your mental clarity. Remember, it’s not about perfection but about making your environment work for you in supporting your emotional health. A positive living space can be a powerful tool for improving your mental well-being and living a happier, more balanced life.