Sexual Assault Awareness and Stories of 4 Victims of Sexual Assault

Sexual Assault Awareness (1)

Sexual Assault is a silent pandemic in our contemporary society. It involves sexual actions that are carried out without the consent of the other party. It is a crime, and sexual assault affects the victim all around. This, sexual assault awareness must be carried out by you and me. Sexual Assault Awareness involves teaching people how to protect themselves from sexual assault, heal from sexual assault, and educate people to not be perpetrators of sexual assault. Read this article to read about sexual assault, sexual assault awareness, and stories of victims of sexual assault.

A Tale of 3 Women Who Broke Barriers

Birds Who Flew Without Wings A Tale of Three Women Who Broke Barriers

A Tale of 3 women who against all odds broke barriers, Dr. Yvonne, Miss Ara, and Mrs. Ayanfe, didn’t let their past and background define them; read this article to see their stories, how they flew even when it seemed as though their wings had been cut.

Female Genital Mutilation: The Tale of a Victim 1

Female Genital Mutilation Tale of a Victim (1)

Amina’s 10th birthday marked a turning point in her life. Instead of celebrating, she was taken to a village where she was forced to undergo female genital mutilation (FGM). The experience was traumatic, and Amina witnessed the devastating consequences of FGM, including the death of a young girl who underwent the procedure before her.

How to Prepare Nigerian Party Jollof Rice

Nigerian party Jollof rice preparation

Nigerian  Party Jollof Rice has gained widespread recognition both locally and globally due to its outstanding taste and aroma. It has become a signature dish and is often compared with Ghanaian Jollof Rice. Many Nigerians take pride in their Jollof Rice, claiming it is the best in the world. This dish is typically prepared for important occasions like weddings, child dedications, church ceremonies, and birthday parties. Jollof Rice has dominated the culinary scene at various ceremonies and occasions, as it is often the meal of choice for celebratory events in Nigeria. The popularity of the Nigerian party Jollof Rice is also attributed to the high level of rice consumption across the country. Rice is one of the major staple foods in Nigeria, enjoyed by people from all geopolitical zones and socioeconomic classes. Approximately 57% of the 6.7 million metric tonnes of rice consumed in Nigeria annually is locally produced, resulting in a supply deficit of about 3 million metric tonnes. Ingredients for Preparing Nigerian Jollof Rice – Long-grain rice – Fresh tomatoes – Fresh peppers – Onions – Seasoning cubes – Meat (your choice) – Fish (optional) – Spices (especially curry powder and thyme) – Groundnut oil – Salt – Crayfish (dried shrimp) – Fresh spices (optional) Preparation Steps 1. Parboil the rice (preferably long-grain) for 30 minutes. 2. Drain the parboiled rice and set it aside. 3. Blend fresh tomatoes, peppers, and onions with your desired spices, then set aside. 4. Wash your meat and fish and place them in a pot. 5. Add seasoning cubes, onions, peppers, and salt to taste. Cook the meat and fish for 15 minutes. 6. You can cook the fresh fish and meat together or separately; the fish is optional. 7. Grind the crayfish thoroughly. 8. Remove the bones from your smoked fish (this step is optional but recommended). 9. Heat a pot over a fire. 10. Add groundnut oil and allow it to heat for 5 minutes. 11. Pour the blended mixture of fresh tomatoes, peppers, and onions into the hot oil and fry for 30 minutes. 12. Add seasoning cubes, ground spices, and salt to taste. 13. Stir for 3 minutes. 14. Add the ground crayfish and smoked fish, then cover to heat. 15. Add the cooked meat and fish stock to the stew. 16. If needed, add additional water and then pour in the drained rice. 17. Cook until the rice is fully done. Enjoy your delicious Nigerian Jollof Rice Also Read: Family; The One Thing That Truly Matte

The Best Love: 8 Ways To Remind You of God’s Love

The Best Love 8 Ways To Remind You of God's Love

Feeling Unloved and Unseen? Here Are Reminders of the Best Love Ever – God’s Love. Love is an emotion characterized by strong feelings of affection for another arising out of kinship, companionship, admiration, or benevolence (Britannica). God is love. The best description of love is found in John 3:16, which says, “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” It’s essential to remember that there’s no better love than the love God has for us. And God has commanded us to love others as He has loved us (John 13:34). In the Bible, we see that God is a loving Father. Here are some reminders of His love: Love Cares: Do you feel uncared for here’s a reminder of God’s love, and how much He cares for us. God cares for us deeply. In Matthew 6:26-30, Jesus says, “Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?… And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin.” Love Provides: The other day, you were in lack and as always, God came through for you in ways you didn’t even expect. Fear not, God is the same yesterday, today, and forever. He will come to your aid today. God provides for His children abundantly. In Matthew 7:9-11, Jesus says, “Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!” Love Sacrifices: There’s no love without sacrifice, and Christ has made the greatest sacrifice ever. Romans 5:8 says, “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Love Protects: Are you scared of the plans of the enemy? Here’s a reassurance, God protects His children with care. In Psalm 91:11-12, it says, “For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways; they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.” Love Comforts: Are you in despair, so you feel depressed, neglected. God is stretching His arms, allow Him into your heart. God comforts His children in times of need. In John 14:16-17, Jesus says, “And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever—the Spirit of truth.” Matthew 11:28-30 says, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Love Sees: God sees us and knows each and every part of our being. In Genesis 16:13-14, Hagar, who was distressed and in the desert, encountered the angel of the Lord. She realized God was aware of her circumstances and called Him El-roi, meaning “You are the God who sees me… I have now seen the One who sees me.” Love Listens: You need someone to talk to? God listens to our prayers and answers. God knows the voice of His sheep. In Jeremiah 33:3, it says, “Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.” Love Heals: I want you to hold on God no matter how terrible and sad the hospital report says. God is the Great Physician. In Matthew 15:30, it says, “Great crowds came to him, bringing the lame, the blind, the crippled, the mute, and many others, and laid them at his feet; and he healed them.” Call to Action: Now, take a moment to reflect on the aspects of your life where God’s love is visible and undoubtedly present. Hold on to His faithfulness, and in prayer, ask the Lord to help your heart. Conclusion: As children of God, we’re commanded to love others as He has loved us (John 13:34). Love can be shared through the smallest acts of kindness. A smile, a thoughtful gesture, or a kind word can go a long way. True love goes beyond public displays; it’s about genuinely regarding others with kindness and respect. It’s about being willing to sacrifice for the benefit of others. Love is doing good without expecting anything in return. As Jesus taught, love is forgiving others “seventy times seven” (Matthew 18:22).   ALSO READ: Religion Creates No Boundaries In Love

Family and Values: All You Need to Know

Family and Values All You Need to Know (2)

Thinking about values and what should be your top value? Choose family. Read this article to know why. A family is a group of people related by blood, marriage, or adoption. The Cambridge Dictionary defines values as the beliefs people have, especially about what is right and wrong and what is most important in life, that control their behaviour. Examples of values include growth, empathy, discipline, family, compassion, honesty, humility, and courage. I hold family as my top value, and I believe everyone should too. Family is the first and primary institution in society, and it plays a crucial role in child care and development. Your family is your first school, and when a child is born, the family becomes solely responsible for their development, welfare, and overall well-being. The family unit teaches children basic knowledge, respect, honesty, humility, and essential life skills. As children grow, these lessons shape their social, cultural, political, and religious views. When children from different families interact, their differing perspectives often lead to disagreements. However, these disagreements stem from the values instilled by their families. Brown is a high school girl who believes she can break barriers and, against all odds, become a great force in aerospace. June, a five-year-old, believes he’s going to be a doctor someday. Lin doesn’t eat meat because her mom said they’re vegetarians. Zuri, a four-year-old, almost went out with her hair out, but her elder sister told her girls in Islam should always cover their hair. Tahley cried because he wanted to meet Santa Claus, and his dad said, “Wait till it’s Christmas.” Nobody is an island; everyone needs family and the love that binds them. Your family is the first to love you, and this love stays, even till the end of time. While there may be conflicts, it is pertinent to know that as long as humans are on earth, there will always be conflicts, and they can always be managed and curbed. Tobi and Julie, siblings who argue frequently, remain best friends for life. If you’re unsure about prioritizing family, ask yourself: Who supported you in difficult times? Who reassured and cared for you? Who made sacrifices and stayed by your side? Who said those prayers and stayed with you all night? Mr. Levi, a 66-year-old in the hospital, looks at his wife with so much love as she cleans him up with care and gentleness. Shayla cries as her lover just dumped her, and she finds solace and comfort in her big brother’s arms. Katherine is campaigning, as she wants to be the first black woman to win the election. The love of family is profound. It’s deeper than the Pacific Ocean, knowing you for who you are and standing by you through thick and thin. Come rain, come sunshine. When others turn away, your family remains. They bring joy in bleak times, make you laugh when you see no reason to, provide a sense of security, and take risks for you. They teach with love, and no one wants the best for you more than your family. Brown is now an aerospace engineer; her family believed in her and gave her all the support she needed. Just like Ben Carson, June is now a neurosurgeon; he wasn’t good in sciences, but his big brother didn’t give up on him. Lin doesn’t need to be reminded to say no when given meat. Zuri knows she must not expose her hair in public; she has never done that. “Christmas is my best season,” Tahley said, as he does his Christmas decor in his apartment in a Santa Claus costume. Mrs. Levi has tears of joy rolling down her cheeks as Mr. Levi rings the bell; he beats cancer and will be discharged from the hospital in a few days. Shayla has now found true love and is married to the best man ever. Katherine won her election against all odds; her family was her backbone. I can go on and on, but the lesson here is that all these achievements were made possible because they all had families with them and by their side. Even as you reflect, this is all you need to hold family as your top value today. ALSO READ: When Family Becomes the Most Important Destination

Simple Steps to a Balanced Diet: How to Easily Meet Your Nutritional Needs Without the Hassle

Simple Steps to a Balanced Diet How to Easily Meet Your Nutritional Needs Without the Hassle

Maintaining a balanced diet is crucial for overall health, but many people find it overwhelming to navigate nutritional guidelines and meal planning. However, eating a well-rounded diet doesn’t have to be complicated or time-consuming. By focusing on a few simple principles, you can easily meet your body’s nutritional needs without the stress. In this article, we’ll break down easy steps to create a balanced diet that supports your health and well-being. Prioritize Whole Food The foundation of a balanced diet is whole, unprocessed foods. Whole foods are rich in essential nutrients and free from added sugars, unhealthy fats, and artificial ingredients often found in processed foods. These include fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins, and healthy fats. Incorporating more whole foods into your meals ensures you’re getting vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants that your body needs for optimal functioning. Stock up on staple items like whole grains (brown rice, quinoa), fresh or frozen vegetables, fruits, and lean proteins (chicken, fish, beans). Keeping these basics on hand allows you to quickly assemble meals without the need for elaborate recipes or ingredients. Balance Macronutrients in Every Meal A well-balanced diet includes the three main macronutrients: carbohydrates, proteins, and fats. These nutrients provide the energy and building blocks your body needs to function properly. For each meal, aim to include: Carbohydrates: Choose complex carbs like whole grains, oats, sweet potatoes, or brown rice, which provide sustained energy and fiber. Protein: Include lean sources of protein such as chicken, fish, eggs, beans, tofu, or plant-based protein options. Protein is essential for muscle repair and immune function. Healthy Fats: Incorporate sources of healthy fats, such as avocado, nuts, seeds, or olive oil, which support heart health and brain function. For example, a simple balanced meal could include grilled chicken (protein), roasted vegetables (fiber and carbs), and a drizzle of olive oil (healthy fat). 3. Practice Portion Control One of the easiest ways to maintain a balanced diet without stress is by practicing portion control. Understanding appropriate serving sizes helps prevent overeating and ensures you’re getting the right amount of nutrients without excess. You don’t need to meticulously count calories—just be mindful of portion sizes for each food group. Stay Hydrated Hydration is often overlooked but is essential for a balanced diet. Water plays a vital role in digestion, nutrient absorption, and overall health. Aim to drink plenty of water throughout the day to stay hydrated and support your body’s functions. If plain water feels monotonous, you can add lemon slices or cucumber for a refreshing twist. Avoid sugary drinks and sodas, which can add empty calories and contribute to imbalanced eating. 5. Incorporate Snacks Wisely Snacking can either support or hinder your balanced diet, depending on your choices. Opt for nutrient-dense snacks that will keep you energized between meals without causing a spike in blood sugar. Some great options include: – A handful of almonds or walnuts (healthy fats and protein), – Greek yogurt with berries (protein and antioxidants), – Sliced veggies with hummus (fiber and protein). By planning ahead and having healthy snacks available, you can prevent the temptation of reaching for processed junk food when hunger strikes. Prepare Meals for Convenience Meal prepping is a practical strategy that helps you stick to a balanced diet even on busy days. Dedicate a few hours at the start of the week to preparing meals in advance. This can be as simple as chopping vegetables, cooking a large batch of whole grains, or marinating lean proteins. Prepping ahead makes it easier to assemble balanced meals throughout the week without the hassle of daily cooking. 7. Don’t Overcomplicate It One of the biggest misconceptions about a balanced diet is that it requires complex meal plans and expensive ingredients. In reality, simple and nutritious meals can be made with everyday ingredients. Focus on variety, ensuring your diet includes a range of different foods to meet all your nutrient needs. Remember, balance is about overall patterns, not perfection. It’s okay to enjoy your favorite treats in moderation as long as your overall diet includes plenty of nutrient-dense foods. Concluding this, maintaining a balanced diet doesn’t have to be difficult or time-consuming. By focusing on whole foods, balancing macronutrients, and practicing portion control, you can easily meet your nutritional needs without stress. Incorporating these simple habits into your routine will not only support your long-term health but also make healthy eating enjoyable and sustainable. So, take the hassle out of eating well and enjoy the benefits of a balanced, nourishing diet.

The Impact of Stress and Diet: How Your Eating Habits Directly Influence Your Mental Health

The Impact of Stress and Diet

In today’s fast-paced world, stress and diet is an almost inevitable part of life. Work deadlines, financial pressures, personal relationships, and countless other factors can contribute to stress, affecting our overall well-being. What’s often overlooked, however, is how our diet can either exacerbate or help manage stress. The connection between diet and mental health is increasingly supported by research, revealing that what we eat significantly impacts our stress levels and emotional well-being. The Connection between Stress and Diet When we experience stress, our bodies go through several physiological changes. The hormone cortisol, known as the “stress hormone,” is released in larger quantities, which can lead to increased appetite, cravings for unhealthy foods, and even weight gain. Many people under stress tend to gravitate towards sugary, high-fat, or processed foods for comfort, creating a vicious cycle where poor eating habits worsen mental health and stress levels. A poor diet not only impacts stress but also directly affects the brain’s ability to function optimally. The gut-brain connection, also known as the gut-brain axis, plays a significant role in mental health. The gut microbiome, which consists of trillions of bacteria, influences the production of neurotransmitters like serotonin, which regulates mood. A healthy gut supports better mood regulation, while an unhealthy diet can disrupt this balance, leading to increased stress and anxiety. Foods That Increase Stress Certain foods and dietary patterns can make stress worse by disrupting the body’s natural processes. Some of the biggest culprits include: Sugary and Processed Foods While reaching for sugary snacks or processed foods may provide temporary comfort, these foods can cause a spike in blood sugar levels, followed by a rapid crash. This blood sugar fluctuation can leave you feeling fatigued, irritable, and more stressed. Additionally, processed foods often lack essential nutrients that support brain health, further contributing to mood disorders. Caffeine Caffeine, commonly found in coffee, energy drinks, and sodas, is a stimulant that can increase heart rate and make the body feel more alert. While moderate amounts of caffeine may not be harmful, excessive intake can lead to increased anxiety, jitteriness, and disrupted sleep, all of which can compound stress. Alcohol Alcohol is often used as a coping mechanism for stress, but it can have the opposite effect in the long run. Alcohol disrupts sleep, dehydrates the body, and alters the balance of chemicals in the brain, exacerbating feelings of stress and anxiety. Regular consumption can also lead to dependency, creating further mental and physical health issues.   Key nutrients that play a role in mental health include: Omega-3 fatty acids: Found in fatty fish, flaxseeds, and walnuts, these are crucial for brain health and have been linked to reduced rates of depression. B vitamins: Essential for neurotransmitter production, these are found in whole grains, leafy greens, and lean proteins. Magnesium: This mineral, found in nuts, seeds, and leafy greens, helps regulate the nervous system and can reduce anxiety. Probiotics: Found in fermented foods, these support gut health, which is increasingly recognized as important for mental well-being. Antioxidants: Present in colorful fruits and vegetables, these protect brain cells from oxidative stress. How to Create a Stress-Reducing Diet? To make plans for a diet that helps manage stress, focus on whole, nutrient-dense foods that provide long-lasting energy and support brain health. Incorporate a variety of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, healthy fats, and lean proteins into your meals. Avoid processed foods, excessive caffeine, and alcohol, which can increase stress and disrupt the body’s natural balance. Additionally, hydration plays an important role in managing stress. Dehydration can lead to fatigue, headaches, and difficulty concentrating, all of which can worsen stress. Be sure to drink plenty of water throughout the day to stay hydrated and support optimal brain function. Conclusion The relationship between stress and diet is undeniable. While stress can sometimes lead to poor food choices, understanding how different foods affect your mental health can help you make better dietary decisions that reduce stress and then, improve your overall well-being. By choosing nutrient-rich, whole foods, you can support your body’s stress response, improve your mood, and protect your mental health in the long run. Also Read : Understanding Bulimia as a Mental Health Challenge: Prevention and Awareness