MY DREAMS-THE MAN IN THE MIRROR

MY DREAM THE MAN IN THE MIRROR

TO THE MAN IN THE MIRROR: In a world where even before I became a boy, I was tagged “A Man”. In a world where I was told, ‘Shhh, men don’t cry’. There’s me, who still wants to be a Man. Life is hard; it’s really hard. But what’s harder is living up to just be like you. Hey, don’t get me wrong, I want to be you. I want to grow up fast so I can become a just. But even as a boy, the world isn’t fair to me, and so I work twice as hard just to make sure I’m fit to be a man – whether I hit the gym or not. I look around me, and it isn’t looking like it. It doesn’t seem to me that this is how to become a m, but no one will teach me. Because as a wanna-be-man, I have to put my head down and somehow try to figure it out. I know you look at me now, and you might not see me being you. I know you’re not proud of me; I’m not proud of me either. But let’s not get ahead of ourselves because I’m still working. And I’m sorry – sorry that I wasted a lot of time before realizing it. Sorry I’ve kept you waiting for what seems like forever. Sorry I’m not doing enough to be good enough for you. But I’m trying, even with nothing. I’m trying to be everything for everyone, especially you. I’m trying to live a day at a time while trying to live in my future. I’m trying to be that person the world would recognize as a Man. Even though it’s my life, they seem to already have a ‘how to live your life’ plan. Sometimes I want to just give up and scream as loud as I can, “I DON’T CARE!” But that isn’t true, and we both know it. So I won’t give up. I won’t stop trying because I know life isn’t a bed of roses, and being a like you will make me lie on a bed of thorns instead. I know it’s looking like it now, but I promise that a day will come when you’ll look at me again and say, “I’m proud of the Man you’ve become.” ALSO READ:10 Healthy Steps to Defeat Negativity  

Make Your Dreams Come True With Just 20k

Make Your Dreams Come True With Just 20k

Indeed, dreams do come through. They say that “the beautiful ones are not yet born,” but trust me, if saying this would give me off as being proud, then be my guest. I am the true definition of beauty, both inside and outside. At least, I see the way heads turn whenever I step out. Despite all these, I am still single at almost 37 years old. Growing up, I had dreamt of getting married to my prince charming at or before age 30 but it seemed that dream would never come to fulfillment. The thought of coming back home to Mama’s constant query of “When will I carry your children?” was another problem to deal with. I mean, I had been dating the love of my life for 7 years, yet no sign of engagement. This was the case with Desmond, whom I gave 5 years of my life, but he ended up with his supposed cousin. As a young lady, I’m quite sure my story is relatable. I had given up on marriage until I came across “Forever and a Day More,” a book by Tessy Harrison, a relationship therapist. Getting a copy of that book made me the Mrs I am today. Less than four months after reading the book, my man proposed. No, it’s not Juju! I simply applied the strategies in the book. Dear beautiful lady, are you tired of waiting for your man to propose and get married to you? FOREVER AND A DAY MORE is all the miracle you need. It will teach you: ✅ How to make your man miss you everyday. ✅ How to identify a time waster. ✅ How to get your man jealous without ruining your relationship. ✅ 20 reasons why a long relationship may not lead to marriage and lots more. Not only that, you will also get a month-long counseling session with the author. Usually, this session costs #150,000 but by getting a copy of FOREVER AND A DAY MORE for 20,000 naira, you have automatically gotten a free counseling session. Distance is not a barrier, as a virtual session is possible for those who can not have a physical meeting. The free counseling is only available to the first 100 people who buy this book on or before the end of this month. Hurry now and purchase a copy and get your dream man wanting you beside him, FOREVER AND A DAY MORE. Click here to get a copy, today!

Indeed, Dreams Come True Through Hardwork and Perseverance

Indeed, Dreams Come True Through Hardwork and Preserverance

Would I ever achieve my dreams? That was the question Tife asked himself when he failed his third jamb again. Tife was born with a silver spoon, and he was the only child of his parents. While growing up, he never lacked monetary things; everything he needed was always provided for him, barely before he asked. Tife was an intelligent, smart child, and he liked clarity so much, which made him ask questions someone would have thought bigger than his brain capacity, but trust Tife to remember every detail of answers provided to each question. Throughout his primary and secondary education programs, he never had reasons to have a B, all his results were always distinctions. Due to his brilliance and intelligence, he became teachers’ favorite and parents’ pride. Tife’s dreams was to become a civil engineer when he grew up, and he likes solving problems. It was a few months to Tife’s UTME exam when things started going south for his family. His father got duped of a huge amount of money while trying to do business transactions. Their lives started taking turns, in a bad way of course. A family who never lacked before became people who found it difficult to eat 3 square meals in a day. The drastic reduction of his father’s wealth was totally strange to him. He found it difficult to wrap his head around the fact that they were no more affluent people. The thought of his family now struggling affected him a lot, that he performed woefully in his first exam. That was the first failure he recorded ever since he was born. After his father got duped, he borrowed money from different people to run his business again, but he kept running into debt. No sooner than later, he got depressed and died due to depression. It was a month to Tife’s second UTME when his father’s death happened. He didn’t recover from the shock of his father’s death even after he wrote his exam; when the results were released, he performed poorly than he did the first time. His father’s death led his mother to start doing menial jobs. He couldn’t help but look for how he could assist his mother and himself financially. He started doing menial jobs and registered for his third UTME exam with money he got from the savings made while working, but he had little or no time to prepare for his exam because he always returned home tired most days. The exam time came, and he wrote it and did a bit better in it than the previous ones, but the score was too low for the Civil Engineering he wanted. When he saw his result this time, he started wailing. He called himself names and asked his mother if he would ever make it in life, but his mother assured him that through faith and hard work,  he would become what he envisaged himself to be. He gave everything it took for his 4th UTME exam, he didn’t let any bad thought put him down, he prayed like never before because he had dreams to achieve, he wrote his exams with faith, and he did excellently well. He was admitted into the university to study the course of his choice. During his undergraduate years, he did a side hustle to relieve his mother of her burden. He did not let these hustles affect him, and he studied harder, for he promised himself he wouldn’t let anything bring him down. READ ALSO: Fortune Favours The Curious: Embracing The Power of Inquisitiveness He later graduated as the best graduating student in his faculty and department at the same time. While giving his speech during convocation, while giving his speech as the Best Graduating Student, his first statement was, “Indeed, dreams come  true “.