Be My Buddy! – 10 Helpful Steps to Life Reset

I want you to be my buddy for life reset

He sat down, then stood again and walked around for a while. Turned back to where he was coming from and stopped on the track with both arms around his waist. His face is the real display rack of a confused fellow. He threw all caution into the air and sat right back into the dust.

He has come to admit to himself that he’s actually at a serious crossroads in his life and escape seems difficult. He covered his face with both hands and shouted out in frustration. A passerby got distracted or rather attracted to the noise and sought him out.

“Young man, is everything alright?”

Silence

“Talk to me. Sharing your feelings is not a sign of weakness but a sign of strength. Moreover, a problem shared is 50% solved.”

That statement got to him, he looked up and took a deep breath. He felt in him that he could trust the stranger and talk to him.

“My life is disordered. A serious crossroad. I’m completely lost. I don’t know the way forward, I can’t go backward because that’s not the kind of life I desired and I don’t know how to get to the other side. I’m stuck.”

He smiled gently at him, “Thanks for sharing. Here take my hand,’ with his hand in his, he pulled the young guy up. “I’ll tell you all you need.”

Surprise creased his eyebrow, “Really?”

“Yeah!”

“All you need to do is reset your life to factory default.”

The guy shot a surprised glance at him. “I don’t get you?”

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He responded with a smile but his expression suddenly turned serious, “Reset to a factory default is If you’re referring to resetting your life in a metaphorical sense. Go back to God. He owns the factory where He created you and He’s willing to reset your life to the original and true state.”

The young guy stared at him for a while in silence and same time reminisced on his words. Finally, he spoke out.

“Please be my buddy.”

“Yeah! I’m more than willing.”

Both held hands and he led the way telling him the right steps to take in resetting his life.

Helpful Steps to Life Reset

 1. Reflection: Take time to reflect on your current situation and identify areas of dissatisfaction or areas where you want to make changes.

  • Consider your values, goals, and aspirations. What is truly important to you?

2. Set Clear Goals: Define clear and realistic goals for different aspects of your life (career, relationships, personal development, health, etc.).

  • Break down larger goals into smaller, more manageable tasks.

3. Create a Plan: Develop a step-by-step plan to achieve your goals. This might include acquiring new skills, seeking education or training, or making specific lifestyle changes.

4. Prioritize: Identify priorities and focus on the most important tasks first.

  • Learn to say no to activities or commitments that do not align with your goals.

5. Let Go of the Past: Acknowledge and accept past mistakes or setbacks. Use them as learning experiences rather than dwelling on them.

  • Forgive yourself and others to release any emotional baggage.
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6. Develop Healthy Habits: Establish routines that contribute to your well-being, such as regular exercise, a balanced diet, and sufficient sleep.

  • Incorporate mindfulness or meditation practices to reduce stress and increase self-awareness.

7. Surround Yourself with Positive Influences: Build a supportive network of friends and family who encourage your growth and share your values.

  • Minimize contact with people or situations that bring negativity into your life.

8. Continuous Learning: Stay curious and open-minded. Embrace opportunities to learn and grow.

  • Seek out new experiences and challenges to expand your perspective.

9. Seek Professional Help if Needed: If you’re struggling with significant issues, consider seeking the assistance of a therapist, counselor, or life coach.

10. Celebrate Progress: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements along the way, no matter how small. This helps to maintain motivation and a positive mindset.

Remember, the process of resetting your life is unique to you, and it’s okay to take it one step at a time. Be patient with yourself and allow for flexibility as you navigate through changes.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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