The Art of Introversion

The Art of Introversion

Introversion has always been my behavioural type since I heard of it and started taking the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator test. I have taken the test about 4 times, and it’s still the same “I” result I get. As a startup writer, I was made to understand that if I want to improve my writing skills, I have to write at least an article every day. It does not matter if I am going to be publishing it or not. I guess this one has to be published on WordPress. I was quite perplexed about what to write up on because, honestly, no matter the topic you want to write up on, if you are a perfectionist like me, you will have to do a little research. Even though I write like a total beginner, I want my write-up to sound somewhat good. So, I decided to use myself as a case study. So, here goes nothing. Let’s talk about Introversion. When someone asks you if you understand the term “introversion” or if you could explain the term with just a word, phrase or sentence, I wonder what your answer would be? Introversion simply is the art and act of being an introvert. At first, I thought being an introvert was being shy, not being able to assert yourself, and being afraid to actively express one’s thoughts, especially in a gathering of people. However, according to The Myers-Briggs Indicator (MBTI), an introvert is someone who gets his/her energy from their inner world of reflections and thoughts. The Myers-Briggs Indicator (MBTI) test is a self-administered assessment test that groups every human on the face of planet Earth into 16 personalities. Introverts apparently focus their energy and attention inward on the reflection of their thoughts. According to Healthline, being an introvert does not necessarily mean that one is shy, it means one gets energized by solo time and feels drained after prolonged social interactions. They do better in quiet environments, enjoy their alone time, and tend to be more reserved than enthusiastic in social settings. I would also say there are different types of introverts because I think I am safe to say this, those definitions given above are definitely not “a one shoe sizes all” type of definition. Having a definition that will fit more than 90% of the introvert population, when you see one or come across one, sure do let me know about it. There are various categories into which introverts can be grouped. The introvert types take into account the varied personalities and acknowledge that introversion is a spectrum. There are 4 types of introverts, and they are; Social introverts: They are the most outgoing and the most private of the types of introverts. While they enjoy socializing, they easily feel emotionally drained when they stay out for too long. They have a small circle of friends and might even be the most social in their circle of friends. Thinking introverts: They also socialize, but they most often will not because they are always caught up in their minds thinking and daydreaming. They are so caught up in their own thoughts that they may seem snubbish to those who are meeting them for the first time. They are also more in tune with their feelings so that other people might have a hard time connecting with them. Anxious introverts: They crave solitude even when they are with their closest friend, playing scenarios over and over in their heads about how to let out their thought process. They feel extremely uncomfortable in new, unfamiliar, and large environments. They analyse their day over and over and over in their head to see if they might have made any mistakes. Restrained introverts: They feel uncomfortable when they are rushed into socializing. They are reserved and thoughtful and do not like forced or rushed changes. They find comfort in their routine, appreciate forewarning, and would only go for social activities if and only if it had been planned and never something spontaneous. READ ALSO: How To Overcome Low Self-Esteem Furthermore, one’s lifestyle and way of life are deeply dependent on the spectrum of introversion a person falls on because it affects the way a person interacts with their surrounding environment and whom we call members of the community. Finally, which one of the introvert types do you think you are? I think I might be 80% more restrained than 20% anxious introvert type. Moreover, being introverted should not be seen as a character flaw or as a disadvantage. Every character type has its advantages, disadvantages strengths, and weaknesses. It is simply a personality trait that should not be changed for anybody at any time.

Fruits, When Best to Eat Them

Fuits, When Best To Eat Them

Fruits! I was just entering the door of my room after a hectic day’s work when I received a call from my father. He said he was calling to report my mother to me, and I was like, “Ha! Why me? Why not report her to your firstborn? Moreover, what has she done this time?” He said he was calling me to tell me that my mom never listens to what he says. Because he wanted to imbibe the culture of healthy living, He told me that that morning, momma ate a whole medium-sized pawpaw he brought in from the pawpaw tree in the house’s backyard immediately after her breakfast. Now, she is complaining of constipation at around 6 pm, the same day. He said he saw a WhatsApp broadcast that one is not supposed to eat fruits immediately after a meal as it causes a slowing emptying of the stomach that can lead to the food taking so longer in the stomach than usual that it can cause the food to start rotting slowly in the stomach. Due to the type of lifestyle we lived while I was still living at home, I asked to speak with momma, and she told me that I should not listen to my father, that she was not feeling constipated, that she was just a little problem passing out stool that she was not constipated at all. Dad was then complaining that she had not been to the toilet for “number 2” for the past 3 to 4 days and that she usually goes almost every other morning. What are the stories that are been told online? That your fruits should not be eaten after a meal because it causes more work for the digestive system and causes slow emptying? That you should not eat it on an empty stomach because you will not be able to utilize the nutrients in them. You should not eat your fruits towards the end of the day because it increases the acidity of your stomach and causes ulcers, and so on. My stand and take on all these? There is absolutely no human being on the face of the planet that should be restricted on their fruit intake only except if they have related disease conditions where they cannot digest the sugar present in them (sucrose) or there is the presence of diabetes mellitus (DM) and even in the case of DM, their intake is closely and strongly monitored, they are not completely restricted. There is no specific stipulated time for the consumption. Also, people diagnosed with duodenal ulcers are told to restrict their intake from the citric family, which includes orange, lemon, lime, grape, clementine, pomelo, tangelo, etc. You can take your fruits hours before your next meal, you can take them a few minutes before your next meal, a few minutes after your meal, the first meal of the day, the last meal of the day, as a snack, as a dessert, or whenever you see it fit. This is because there has been no scientific backing that their consumption at any time of the day negatively affects the digestion of your meal to such a large extent that will you need urgent medical attention. It is beneficial to the body to eat at least 2 servings daily as they contain vitamins and minerals, which are micronutrients needed by the body to help metabolize macronutrients in our main meals. Moreover, eating them combined with vegetables is usually termed as the soldiers of the body that help with the immune function of the body system to help the body fight against infections and illnesses. After a quick clerking of my mother, I asked about her 72-hour dietary recall, water intake, activity level, fruit intake, and general oral intake, including medications. My dear mother took a medication that helps stop stooling about 3 days ago because she had a job screening, she was so nervous that she had to medicate herself because she has a nervous stomach. So, after her screening, she had been eating fruits with all her meals. Just because, not even because she wanted to visit the toilet for “number 2”. My father just happened to notice that she had not been going to the toilet early in the morning like always. He was not aware that she had medicated herself. So, it was never about how and when she ate her fruits. If you notice that after eating a particular fruit, you get a running stomach or start to pass watery stool frequently, you should refrain from eating the specified fruit. My Rendition of the Essay. Are you caught in the endless cycle of confusion about the “right” time to eat them? It’s time to clear the air and debunk the myths that have long dictated our fruit consumption habits. The widespread misconceptions about eating fruits only at certain times of the day have led to unnecessary dietary restrictions and anxiety. Here’s why these myths are unfounded and detrimental to our health and well-being. Myth 1: Don’t Eat Fruits Right After Meals The belief that consuming them immediately after meals slows down digestion and leads to food rotting in the stomach is a myth that lacks scientific evidence. Our digestive system is well-equipped to handle various foods, including fruits, regardless of the timing. Myth 2: Avoid Fruits on an Empty Stomach Another popular myth suggests that eating fruits on an empty stomach is harmful and prevents nutrient absorption. This myth is not entirely true. Fruits are rich in vitamins, minerals, and fiber; the body can utilize these nutrients effectively, whether consumed on an empty stomach or not. Myth 3: Eating Fruits at Night Causes Acidity The idea that consuming fruits towards the end of the day increases stomach acidity and leads to ulcers is another unfounded claim. Fruits are generally alkaline and can help neutralize acidity in the body, not cause it. The Reality: Fruits are Flexible Friends The truth is, … Read more