Aminah, my friend smiled last

Aminah, my friend smiled last

I didn’t need a soothsayer to tell me Aminah had cried all night. Was it her swollen eyes that didn’t pass the message to me or her gloomy face? It was Aminah’s husband that called me at the odd hours of the night. He had travelled and wasn’t at home; he pleaded with me to try as much as possible to be at their place the following morning; someone called her barren again. He said bitterly. Aminah was a waiting mother for 11 years; she had been strong and carried on with her life, hoping Allah would answer her prayers on time.  Until some folks started calling her barren, Aminah was an online chef who shared recipes that she thought would be useful for her followers, but anytime any of the recipes didn’t sit well with them, they would go to her DM to call her all sorts of names. Some even went as far as telling her to divert all her energy into how she would have children, forgetting she was not Allah. That morning, I didn’t bother to ask her why she was crying; all I did was to pacify her. I made sure she ate and slept before going to my home. READ ALSO: Indeed Dreams Come Through Hardwork And Perseverance  A  month after, I visited her randomly as I always did and noticed the smile on my baby girl’s face was contagious, I could sense she was genuinely happy. Before I could ask her what was up she handed a paper to me, it was a doctor’s report that stated my friend was 5 weeks pregnant!!! IN THAT MOMENT, the only thing that kept coming out of my mouth was ALHAMDULILAH!!!!!..

The High Stakes of Gambling: A Cautionary Tale

The High Stakes of Gambling A Cautionary Tale

Gambling is not only frowned upon and prohibited by Allah, it is ruinous and is one of the major sins because it is a form of Riba. The rate at which people bet or gamble is scary and alarming, and the fact that anyone can gamble in their comfort zone makes the situation worse. A few years ago, people couldn’t gamble until they left their homes. The gamblers did have locations that were always hideous to perform their activities. Unfortunately today, things have changed with the help of smartphones and technological advancements. Gambling or betting platforms are now something people can easily have access to. Hardly would you go online nowadays without coming across one or two ads placed on betting. The level of publicity they give it is just too much, and there are some sets of people called comedians that promote it too. Some online banks even give people bonuses to start their betting or gambling journey. They all are finding a way or the other to involve people in gambling because if they don’t force it down on people’s throats,  how will they make their money? What bothers me is, don’t people know that betting or gambling is designed for them to lose? That is why they barely win but keep returning to it, thinking luck will be on their side one day. Before, we used to know betting as masculine, but now it is a thing of both genders. Girls now play it without shame; how sad is that! May Allah rectify us. There is a lot of damage gambling has caused and will still cause because a larger percentage of the people involved in it won’t leave it, and more people are going to join. Recently,  I came across a post about a young guy who committed suicide because he lost millions of money in it. I also knew someone who stole his friend’s generator, sold it, then used the money to gamble and still lost. Subhanallah!. People involved in gambling do not just become addicts; some of them steal, risk their properties, borrow money, become depressed, and commit suicide, thinking they will win, forgetting that gambling is designed for them to lose. So many people have gone bankrupt due to gambling, all in the name of they want to get rich quickly.

Finding Fulfillment: The Power of Contentment

Finding Fulfillment The Power of Contentment

Contentment, they say, is the key to happiness. Ever wondered why there are so many atrocities in the world today? Why is there an alarming rate of ritualists, yahoo boys, prostitutes and kidnappers? It is because most of these evil doers are not contented. They want to wear the latest clothes, drive the latest cars, and spend lavishly during the night club to show off, yet all these do not last long. Ritualists don’t just become ritualists in a day. It all started from dissatisfaction with their clothes, food, shoes and whatever they had. They want to have the lifestyles they can’t afford. So many girls have fallen victim to ritualists, all because they want to brag about using the latest iPhone, live luxurious lives, make headlines of stories and oppress their fellow gender even when they do not hard earn all the money they spend. I remember vividly this story of a lady who was just inducted into the Nursing profession. She threw an after-party after her induction, but sadly, her life was cut short that very day with her vital parts missing. When the policemen did their findings about the unfortunate incident,  they found out her killer was the one who sponsored the night party. She couldn’t afford the party but wanted to show her friends she was a lady of high class. Her lack of contentment led her to her early grave! It is obvious that greed led her killer to perpetrate the evil which resulted in her death. A contented person wouldn’t have thought of something that evil to get money.  This story is one out of many we have heard. Some weren’t killed, but the chance of their lives being impactful is low. The earlier we all know that being contented saves us from a lot of embarrassment and dangers, the better we source for our sustenance legally and forbid illegal acts.

Indeed, Dreams Come True Through Hardwork and Perseverance

Indeed, Dreams Come True Through Hardwork and Preserverance

Would I ever achieve my dreams? That was the question Tife asked himself when he failed his third jamb again. Tife was born with a silver spoon, and he was the only child of his parents. While growing up, he never lacked monetary things; everything he needed was always provided for him, barely before he asked. Tife was an intelligent, smart child, and he liked clarity so much, which made him ask questions someone would have thought bigger than his brain capacity, but trust Tife to remember every detail of answers provided to each question. Throughout his primary and secondary education programs, he never had reasons to have a B, all his results were always distinctions. Due to his brilliance and intelligence, he became teachers’ favorite and parents’ pride. Tife’s dreams was to become a civil engineer when he grew up, and he likes solving problems. It was a few months to Tife’s UTME exam when things started going south for his family. His father got duped of a huge amount of money while trying to do business transactions. Their lives started taking turns, in a bad way of course. A family who never lacked before became people who found it difficult to eat 3 square meals in a day. The drastic reduction of his father’s wealth was totally strange to him. He found it difficult to wrap his head around the fact that they were no more affluent people. The thought of his family now struggling affected him a lot, that he performed woefully in his first exam. That was the first failure he recorded ever since he was born. After his father got duped, he borrowed money from different people to run his business again, but he kept running into debt. No sooner than later, he got depressed and died due to depression. It was a month to Tife’s second UTME when his father’s death happened. He didn’t recover from the shock of his father’s death even after he wrote his exam; when the results were released, he performed poorly than he did the first time. His father’s death led his mother to start doing menial jobs. He couldn’t help but look for how he could assist his mother and himself financially. He started doing menial jobs and registered for his third UTME exam with money he got from the savings made while working, but he had little or no time to prepare for his exam because he always returned home tired most days. The exam time came, and he wrote it and did a bit better in it than the previous ones, but the score was too low for the Civil Engineering he wanted. When he saw his result this time, he started wailing. He called himself names and asked his mother if he would ever make it in life, but his mother assured him that through faith and hard work,  he would become what he envisaged himself to be. He gave everything it took for his 4th UTME exam, he didn’t let any bad thought put him down, he prayed like never before because he had dreams to achieve, he wrote his exams with faith, and he did excellently well. He was admitted into the university to study the course of his choice. During his undergraduate years, he did a side hustle to relieve his mother of her burden. He did not let these hustles affect him, and he studied harder, for he promised himself he wouldn’t let anything bring him down. READ ALSO: Fortune Favours The Curious: Embracing The Power of Inquisitiveness He later graduated as the best graduating student in his faculty and department at the same time. While giving his speech during convocation, while giving his speech as the Best Graduating Student, his first statement was, “Indeed, dreams come  true “.